? You’re listening to the Each day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in. A great, enjoyable stuffed episode on this Monday. We’re going to go over Golden Bachelorette just a little bit. Spoiler forward from this previous weekend. However the juice from final evening’s YouTube reside stream that I broke on that present, going to repeat it once more right here for many who didn’t catch the YouTube present final evening with regard to Sam McKinney, the man who obtained Jen’s first impression rose.
He has exes they usually’re talking out. Talked to certainly one of them on yesterday, talked about it on the reside stream final evening. And I’ll get to that on this podcast. Additionally going to speak about huge brother beginning this week. Questions on that. I received to fill you in on a dream that I had. One in every of my 4 staple desires I’ve instructed you about and unlucky information over the weekend, clearly a really tough weekend within the political world with what occurred there in Pennsylvania.
However we had three or 4 celeb deaths over the weekend. One which clearly struck near house for me, Shannon Doherty’s passing. And we’ll get to that on the finish of the podcast. We’ll get to all that momentarily. So let’s start with this. Yesterday I posted it on my Instagram tales and I posted it on Twitter.
Joan had a hometown date yesterday and it was with chalk chapel in Wichita, Kansas chalk is the man that she had a one on one date. The primary one on one of many season at Disneyland final week, I revealed who he was, I came upon final week who he was and I came upon this previous weekend he had a hometown date yesterday.
So right here’s the factor. I don’t know what number of hometown dates Joan is having. Final 12 months Gary had three, we all know the usual is 4. Perhaps for the Golden Bachelor and Golder Bachelorette seasons, they’re solely gonna do three. I don’t know what quantity Chalk was. I don’t know if this was her first one. I don’t know if it was her second one.
I don’t know if he was there, he was her third one. I do not know. I simply know she had a hometown date yesterday in Wichita. I’ve to imagine that Mark Anderson, Kelsey’s dad most likely had a hometown date as effectively, or is having a hometown date, any golden bachelorette information. I’ll hold you up to date on and fill you in.
In order that’s the one factor I do know proper now’s that we’re at hometowns. I don’t know if she’s having three or 4, however certainly one of them was with chalk chapel yesterday in Wichita, Kansas. However the huge story final evening on the YouTube reside stream was the truth that certainly one of Sam McKinney’s exes. And I don’t even know whether or not or not you need to name the phrase X, however positively somebody that he was concerned with.
Her identify is Rayleigh. She took to Tik TOK three days in the past and posted a video after watching the premier episode and defined on her video. Hey, this can be a state of affairs. Met a man in October, actually fell for one another. I feel she met him at a marriage, actually fell for him they usually saved in contact they usually saved in contact for a very long time.
He got here to see her. She went to see him as soon as. He got here to see her twice, each occasions that he got here to see her, she, he stayed along with her. She graduated Texas state college this previous Could and clearly he had simply gotten again from filming, however at no level throughout the six months the place they, that they had been collectively, did he ever inform her he was going by making use of for the present?
She didn’t discover out till the day he left for filming. That day, whereas he was on the aircraft, despatched her an extended word, which she forwarded on to me. Not going to learn the entire thing, however it was mainly him placing the onus on her. And as to why he selected to do the present versus proceed up to now her. I don’t, I don’t actually purchase a lot of what he says as a result of having spoken to Rayleigh, Additionally to let you already know, Sam was as soon as engaged.
That’s not information. I posted that the day he was introduced as a bachelor at contestant, he was engaged. It was damaged off in June of final 12 months. He talked about it within the first episode. He stated, my ex cheated on me, which is true. I’ve spoken to her. She’s by no means denied it to me that she ever cheated on him. I didn’t ask the story behind it.
As a result of she did say, whereas I did do this, there may be rather more to the story that he’s not sharing. I had a sense he was going to go on the present and make me look unhealthy. And I instructed her, I stated, look, I’ll provide the alternative. If you wish to come on the reside stream, you need to come on a podcast. By all means, you possibly can.
I’ll allow you to do it. And she or he’s like, you already know what? I simply need to keep out of it. I, I knew he was going to do that. He’s going to make himself appear like the sufferer. However the attention-grabbing factor about the entire thing of him saying that my ex cheated on me and he’s going to revolve his entire time on Jen season round the truth that his ex cheated.
What he isn’t revealing to anyone is even after he came upon she cheated and even after they ended their engagement, he nonetheless received again collectively along with her. So how bothered was he actually? By his ex dishonest on him, contemplating he was nonetheless getting along with her. And so they formally, based on her ended issues in about January of this 12 months.
So I’m not even saying like, Oh, he was even getting again together with his ex fiance proper earlier than he left. No, he wasn’t, however the ex fiance did find out about Rayleigh. Actually had no concept that he was nonetheless in touch and presumably hooking up together with his ex fiance. She had no concept till yesterday. So I wasn’t emailed Railey’s tick tock till yesterday.
She had achieved it, I feel three days in the past, Thursday or Friday. So I used to be instructed about it, reached out to her on tick tock on a message. She messaged me proper again. We received to speaking and I stated, Hey, let’s simply focus on this over the cellphone. I gave her the chance to come back on the reside stream final evening and he or she’s similar to, I don’t suppose I need to do this.
She was, trigger it’s nonetheless very arduous on me. And for those who watched her 5 minute video on Tik Tok, she needed to clearly cease the digital camera a couple of occasions since you might inform she was welling up and he or she was getting emotional. She was actually harm by what Sam did and having to relive it on Tik Tok. She wasn’t comfortable about it.
Now you may simply be like lots of people recover from it. You’re only a scorned X or no matter. All she’s doing is declaring her reality. In case you’re going to take that out on her, it’s most likely since you suppose Sam is scorching and also you need Sam to love you or one thing. That’s the one motive you’re taking it out on her.
She’s achieved nothing unsuitable. She instructed her story. Now, it’s a little bit extra severe than, oh, he was simply, she was just a few aspect piece that he was hooking up with and he didn’t inform her he was happening the present after which he left to go on the present. This was just a little extra severe. She shared it. She met his household, his household met her.
So when household’s concerned, you’re now coping with any person that has emotions there. And Sam, look, the underside line to this entire story, Sam’s simply an F boy. That’s actually all it’s. This isn’t, I, this isn’t gonna be some kind of battle going backwards and forwards. I’m not gonna sit right here and say, Oh my God, Sam McKinney is the worst contestant this present has ever had.
No, he’s no totally different than 90 p.c of them. He simply has an ex that occurs to be coming ahead and telling her aspect of the story about what occurred. Effectively, when she did that on Tik TOK, she came upon yesterday. Whereas I used to be within the midst of emailing along with her on Tik TOK, another lady reached out to her and stated, by the way in which, I’m hooking up with him or I used to be hooking up with him final 12 months.
And I’m nonetheless speaking to him now. I’ve connected with him since he received again from filming. Let’s swap tales. They realized their timelines overlapped. In order that’s two that we find out about. If we truthfully suppose these are the one two ladies that this man was speaking to and, or hooking up with throughout his software course of.
I’ve received some land to promote you, however once more, this isn’t some kind of battle. I’m not saying he’s the worst man ever. I’m simply declaring, Rayleigh was the one which got here ahead along with her story. I had no concept about this story till yesterday afternoon when somebody despatched me her tick tock and he stated, have you ever seen this woman’s tick tock about Sam?
I stated, no. So instantly I went straight to the supply. I didn’t know if she was going to reply to me. Perhaps she was simply going to depart it at, Hey, right here’s my tick tock. However she gave me much more particulars. As soon as I did discuss to her trigger I used to be like, Hey, Simply run me down the timeline. I watched your tech discuss, however I simply need to be sure she stated, yeah, met him in October of final 12 months and.
Didn’t discover out he was leaving to do this. He was on the bachelorette till the day He was leaving and he instructed me after which he mainly pinned it on her saying effectively You didn’t inform me the way you felt So this is the reason I made the choice that I did which is complete bullshit and elsewhere His sister goes after Rayleigh now and mainly saying effectively, he’s received a contract He’s not allowed to say that he can’t and I discover that very Handy that he’s utilizing the truth that he had a contract and was about to go on the present that he couldn’t inform anyone Was doing it However when he got here again from filming, he had no drawback breaking that contract and telling Rayleigh a number of the issues that occurred on the present.
So that every one falls by the wayside if you’re simply utilizing the contract as a handy excuse to not inform a woman that you just’re hooking up with, Oh, by the way in which, I’m happening The Bachelorette as a result of that was sort of her level to me after I was speaking to her. She’s like, I don’t know why he didn’t simply inform me.
I stated, effectively, actually, sadly, that is most likely your first 4 approach into the entire bachelor nation world. What Sam did to you isn’t any totally different than what 90 p.c of the blokes on the present do to different ladies in previous seasons. It’s simply what they do. They depart the door open with ladies again house. They don’t inform them.
After which hastily they spring it on them they usually’re similar to, effectively, we weren’t severe. Or, effectively, I didn’t hear, you already know, you didn’t divulge heart’s contents to me. So I made a decision to do the present. It’s simply all bullshit. He’s filled with, he’s filled with crap and if you watch the following six episodes, simply know a number of the issues that he was doing.
Primary being the largest factor that I heard by all of this. Effectively, two huge issues that I heard by all of this. Primary, manufacturing knew that Sam needed to be again earlier than filming ended as a result of he was inefficient to marry his sister. So, that’s all true. That’s on social media. You will discover his pals and his, his pals even commenting on the day Sam was introduced as a contestant about how he needed to be again in Could to marry his sister.
Which he did however right here’s the factor now that we all know this Something he says to Jen in six weeks is full and complete bullshit. He might by no means win He wouldn’t logistically be allowed to win as a result of he knew he was leaving He knew he by no means had an opportunity to make it to the tip of the present As a result of he needed to be again to marry his sister and so did manufacturing So if you watch Sam for the following 5 episodes, simply hold that in thoughts Simply know that something he’s feeding Jen is complete bullshit And something he’s feeding any of those ladies, he appears to be sort of a love bomber and telling ladies what they need to hear, which once more, no totally different than many of the guys on this present, however Sam’s been uncovered now as a result of exes have determined to speak.
This lady, Rayleigh, very good woman might inform she was very bothered by the very fact, I imagine. After I first began speaking to her yesterday, the opposite woman hadn’t contacted her but. So the issues that I used to be listening to from her was very, she was very open to the truth that I feel, effectively, I do know for a truth, Sam and Rayleigh had been looking for a approach to see one another.
Since he received again from filming, they had been making an attempt to plan a visit. He was going to enter her commencement, however that was the identical time his sister was getting married. So he couldn’t go to her commencement at Texas state. Then they had been speaking about presumably linking up in another approach. Him coming to see her or her going to see him.
But it surely didn’t work out till yesterday when she finds out, Oh, there’s a woman that he goes to the fitness center with in South Carolina that contacted Rayleigh and stated, Oh, by the way in which, right here’s my state of affairs with him. So I feel Rayleigh is just about achieved with him. She, at the least she ought to be. And I feel one of many different essential issues that was realized, and primary, like I stated, him, you already know, utilizing, you already know, saying the truth that he was, he might by no means win this factor.
With Jen, as a result of he needed to be again for his sister’s marriage ceremony. He was the environment friendly on the marriage ceremony. The opposite factor was when he got here again from filming, he instructed Rayleigh, he thought Jen was a liar. He stated, Jen’s emotions are in every single place. And the individual she picks on the finish goes to show that that’s what he instructed Rayleigh actually instructed that to me.
Now, clearly I didn’t hear the dialog between Sam and Rayleigh. I’m relaying what Rayleigh instructed me from what she remembers of the dialog. And. I are likely to imagine Rayleigh as a result of she’s offered receipts and proof and I do know that clearly she has a previous with Sam Now I’m telling you proper now Sam’s household and Sam himself.
I’m certain gonna come out in opposition to me due to this I’m certain they’re gonna take to social media and take photographs at me or take photographs on the ladies Who’ve come and spoken out in opposition to him, and I get the household doing it as a result of they’re simply defending their brother and whatnot, and I’m certain Sam will most likely make some snide comment on social media or no matter, however the backside line is I’ve seen the receipts.
I imagine Rayleigh. I imagine his ex fiancee Sierra, and I imagine them over Sam. Sorry. There’s one widespread denominator between Sam and these three ladies. Sierra, Rayleigh and Jim woman, let’s simply name it that the woman he goes to the fitness center with in South Carolina that he was hooking up with and has connected with since filming ended.
There’s one widespread denominator in these three quote unquote relationships and it’s not any of the ladies, it’s Sam McKinney. So who’re you going to imagine? You realize, he already known as when, when, when Rayleigh known as him out for, Hey, I used to be simply contacted by so and so out of your fitness center. Oh, she’s a psych. She’s psychotic.
Don’t take heed to her. After which he additionally instructed Rayleigh whereas they had been relationship to dam Sierra, his ex fiance as a result of Sierra was loopy. So he’s telling all the ladies that he’s with, oh, these different exes you hear about, they’re loopy. I imply, this story is as outdated as time. That is what guys do. Oh, my ex is loopy, you already know, and simply to scare them off but.
She was loopy sufficient to the place after you, she cheated on you and ended an engagement. You had been nonetheless getting along with her. So apparently she wasn’t that loopy since you nonetheless wished to get along with her. So that is what I’m saying. However yeah, these are the, most likely the, the, the 2 largest issues. He comes again from filming and he says that clearly I feel he’s speaking about Devin.
But it surely’s handy that he couldn’t inform Rayleigh that he was going to be on the Bachelorette due to a contract state of affairs. I can’t inform anyone I’m happening the present. I might get in bother. However then when he comes again, he does discuss in regards to the present. So sorry, Sam. That basically doesn’t work. Can’t use the narrative to, you already know, you possibly can’t use the contract to suit your narrative as a result of earlier than you may have instructed her and that’s all she wished was the reality.
You would have instructed her you had utilized, might have stated, Hey, I utilized. I do not know in the event that they’re getting again to me. Clearly he did. He knew they had been getting again to him. He simply selected to maintain that from her as a result of he knew he would most likely not be capable to see her or discuss to her. And he knew he would most likely let her down.
However I additionally noticed the message that he left her the second he received his cellphone again. And it had no, and it was mainly him displaying a really robust curiosity in getting again with Rayleigh when he received again from filming, they tried to make issues work by way of seeing one another. They didn’t. After which hastily this occurs yesterday and he or she finds on the market was one other woman concerned they usually’re just about achieved.
So simply wished to relay that story. Like I stated, not seeking to begin a battle right here. It’s nothing like that. However yeah. Rayleigh got here out with this on tech discuss. I simply occurred to, you already know, clearly be notified of it, contacted her myself. I wished to get the story and that is what she instructed me. And I’m simply relaying it to you.
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