You might be listening to the Day by day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve Podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in on this Monday. Boy, has Caitlin Bristow stepped in it. She is taking some main, main warmth for what she stated on the Betches podcast. Jared Freed, one of many co hosts.
We’re going to get into that. I’ll play you the clip and offer you my ideas on it. We’re additionally going to speak in regards to the Instagram followings for the ultimate 4 males of Gen season, which is at an all time low. After which discuss just a little bit about Huge Brother from final evening and what’s been happening this week.
We are going to get to all that momentarily. So when you haven’t heard it, Caitlyn Bristow went on the Betches podcast with Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham. It’s a part of the Betches podcast community. The precise podcast itself known as You Up with Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham. And Caitlyn went on it and they have been speaking about, Effectively, I’m going to play you the clip as a result of there’s a, there’s a variety of issues that we now have to get to with this.
So let me play you the clip right here after which we’ll focus on.
On a date with someone from the franchise and I attain out to the woman that he was with as a result of once more, I needed to see,
are you mates together with his ex? Not likely.
No, not in, we hadn’t talked in months and like, No, we’re not.
So that you have been like, okay, we most likely
appear like mates on the skin.
Certain. However we’re not. So that you’re about how, how did the textual content go? Stated I stated, Hey, so and so dmd me.
Your ex DMed me. Yeah. Okay.
And we’ve been chatting, needed to see, I stated, I do know you’re actually pleased in a relationship. So I really, really, so I stated, I don’t really know if this may hassle you or not. I don’t know if it like.
Was sufficient to present a telephone name prefer it clearly simply appeared like a textual content factor to me and Sure, she referred to as and was very upset
and stated don’t go close to this man.
No, she stated I at all times knew you have been a foul individual No And also you’ve confirmed it. So your true colours are displaying. After which I hung up and I went, No, I simply wish to ship her an image of me sucking his dick.
Laughing
She’s undoubtedly not as pleased as you thought she was. I used to be like, you need to have seen my face on the decision. I used to be like, Oh my God. She referred to as you to let you know that? Yeah. And she or he, and I used to be similar to, I’m so sorry. Like I, I really didn’t suppose you have been going to reply. I’m really actually sorry. I went on a date with somebody.
Okay. So there’s a couple of issues there to debate. Primary, she’s clearly speaking about courting Zach. Zach was the one which hit her up in her DMs and she or he’s speaking about Tayshia. That is, I feel the primary situation, which is Caitlin has made it very clear that she’s by no means going to speak about whoever she’s courting and she or he’s by no means going to submit footage with them till actually the marriage.
Now, I don’t imagine her when she says that, however I’m simply saying that is what she has stated publicly. So we will solely take her at her phrase for what she says publicly. She’s mainly saying like, look, I’m not going to do what I did with Sean. I’m not going to do what I did with Jason, anyone. I’m conserving my non-public life off the web.
I, I below, and she or he did make it identified that, look, I perceive footage have gotten out. Individuals have seen stuff on the market. I’m not going to ever disguise from it. I’m simply not going to overtly submit about it. Okay. That’s high-quality. Bye. The issue is by discussing this now on this podcast, the you up podcast, she’s virtually to say, I’m not going to speak about my non-public life after which inform a narrative like that may be very contradictory as a result of now individuals are going to have questions and individuals are going to be like, I assumed you weren’t speaking about your relationship and now you simply not solely advised a narrative about somebody that you just have been seeing within the franchise.
And look, everyone knows who she’s speaking about. I do know she didn’t title names, however we all know she’s speaking about Zach, the man that she is seeing now and again. And she or he’s speaking about how Zach was as soon as engaged to Taysha. Zach hit her up in her DMs and she or he determined to inform Taysha in a textual content that they have been chatting and Taysha referred to as her the subsequent day and stated, exhibits me what a horrible individual you’re, regardless of the language that she used, you’re a foul individual.
So. There’s so many issues at play right here However once more, that first one, it’s simply very contradictory of Caitlin to say, I’m not going to speak about my public life, my private life within the public discussion board, after which not even inform this story on her personal podcast. Inform it on someone else’s like she needed to have identified that this was going to have traction and legs.
The second factor is the story that she advised was so particular and it was graphic as a result of as soon as Tayshia advised her that she wasn’t pleased, Caitlin made a joke. And the rationale why I stated she made a joke is as a result of she did remark about this, I imagine, on her Fb, off the Vine web page, after the very fact, when she’s been taking a variety of warmth for this, as a result of it’s making the rounds, it’s throughout any, it’s throughout my TikTok feed, it’s throughout Instagram pages, everyone’s overlaying this.
She made a joke about, nicely, geesh, and I’m going to simply repeat what Caitlin stated. Effectively, geesh, after she stated that, I needed to ship her an image of me sucking his dick. I don’t know in what world Caitlyn thought that that may be an applicable response to say, even when she was joking, which she says she was as a result of this was despatched to me and it was put out on Caitlyn’s Fb group.
She responded to someone in her off the vine Fb group that stated, It was a joke. Jared is a comic, we now have banter. It was a joke, and naturally I wouldn’t wish to try this. I’m laying in mattress, bawling my eyes out as a result of I really feel a lot disgrace watching it again after I was simply attempting to make Jared snort.
Now I really feel just like the world hates me. I used to be actually attempting to do the fitting factor and I added a foul joke in there, as a result of it’s me and I don’t have a rattling filter. The bullying feedback coming in are so terrible now, so I assume I deserve that. Right here’s the issue. The joke, whereas she was attempting to get amusing out of Jared, it’s not like I took offense to the joke.
I simply didn’t discover it remotely humorous, and I didn’t even perceive what the purpose of that joke was, and now she’s getting warmth. The distinction is the warmth coming from me is simply, Caitlin, you most likely ought to have stored your mouth shut on this one. I perceive she has no filter. The issue is, what number of instances have we heard Caitlin say, I’ve no filter, and find yourself having to do one thing like this?
It appears to occur frequently to the place Caitlyn, we all know struggles with psychological well being. She struggles with trolls coming at her as a result of individuals soar down her throat so much. Generally it’s justified, typically it’s just a little bit exaggerated why trolls go after her. However she seemingly retains doing stuff that offers them fodder to come back after her.
This simply wasn’t a great interview for her. I’m not saying something about Jordana and Jared. I’m saying, This doesn’t make her look good in any respect, as a result of nothing, by telling that story, nothing optimistic may have come from that. Caitlyn needs individuals to be form on the web, proper? She tells individuals on a regular basis, like, hey, let’s simply be good.
As a result of she struggles with it when she will get hate from web trolls. She struggles with it. We all know this. But right here she is on a podcast making a joke that’s on the expense of Tayshia. Saying, yeah, simply so, I ought to have simply stated, even when she was joking and she or he wasn’t severe. The purpose being the response sounded petty and it sounded very imply woman, which is precisely what Caitlin portrays to different those who she doesn’t need.
She needs individuals to be form, she needs individuals to unfold positivity, after which she goes on a podcast and tells that story. There’s the contradiction. And I do know that pump, I do know that folks which are defending Kate and look, I’m not staff, I’m not staff Jason over staff Kaitlin. I like Kaitlin. I’ve received nothing in opposition to Kaitlin.
I don’t have any type of relationship together with her, however I don’t have a problem with Kaitlin. And I’m not selecting a aspect right here. I’m simply laying out the info and giving my opinion of this story as a result of it’s a serious story in Bachelor Nation proper now. It’s all anyone’s speaking about. Each content material creator is speaking about it and individuals are having differing opinions.
Dave has a special opinion than me. She’s all batch consents as me. We’re sort of on the identical aspect of this and I’m similar to, look, it doesn’t imply that I don’t like Dave or something like this. Look, we’re allowed to have totally different opinions. My level being is I simply didn’t suppose general Caitlin wanted to inform this story.
She may have simply, she wasn’t, it’s not like Taysha stated one thing and Caitlin felt the necessity to reply. It’s not like Taysha dissed her publicly and Caitlin’s like, Oh, right here’s, right here’s a means I can get again at her. I’m going to inform this story. Taysha doesn’t discuss something. We haven’t heard Taysha reference Caitlin in most likely two years.
Now, what Caitlin stated in that podcast may’ve been the primary time that she publicly addressed the truth that her and Taysha have been by no means shut mates. Individuals thought they have been as a result of they co hosted The Bachelorette with Katie Thurston they usually co hosted The Bachelorette with Michelle Younger and everyone thought as a result of they have been co hosts and they’re not.
Been listening to that for years. They’ve by no means been shut mates and Caitlin admitted it in that podcast. In order that’s factually right. They have been by no means shut mates, but it surely’s not like Caitlin advised the story in retaliation to one thing Taysha stated. Taysha has been in a relationship with that Luke man for over a 12 months now.
Doesn’t even submit about him. Doesn’t discuss in regards to the franchise anymore. She’s mainly eliminated herself from the whole lot. Bachelor nation. So why would Caitlin? Over a 12 months later, inform this story. That’s what I don’t perceive. It doesn’t make any sense. It doesn’t come throughout as optimistic. It comes throughout as imply woman.
It comes throughout as petty and that’s it. It’s simply do higher. Don’t inform the story. So I don’t hate Caitlin. And for those who, you already know, wish to cancel Caitlin, this isn’t cancelable offense, Caitlin. This isn’t the primary time. And it most likely gained’t be the final time. Caitlin places her foot in her mouth as a result of she doesn’t have a filter.
And that’s all this was. Now, when you’re bored with Caitlin placing in her foot within the mouth. After which getting unhappy and realizing that individuals are coming down on her for one thing, then I recommend the perfect factor to do, and that is everyone’s personal alternative is simply to unfollow, however don’t ship her a message. Don’t write a caption on her Instagram web page, telling her how a lot, how terrible you suppose she was.
She made a foul joke on a podcast. That’s the way in which I take a look at it. It’s a foul joke on a podcast. She by no means ought to have made. And simply be higher subsequent time. That’s all I can ask of her. I don’t know her. If I used to be a buddy of hers and I may discuss to her, that’s precisely what I might inform her and be like, Caitlin, you shouldn’t have stated that it appears to be like actually dangerous.
So I feel the entire thing there’s a, there’s simply the joke itself fell flat. And the joke ended up being on the expense of someone else, since you and I each know if Kat Stickler, Jason Tardik’s new girlfriend advised a joke on a podcast about. I used to be considering of sending Caitlyn an image of me sucking Jason’s dick.
You suppose Caitlyn would have dealt with that nicely? That’s what I’m saying. Even when Kat stated, Oh, I used to be simply joking. I used to be simply enjoying, I used to be simply making a joke. As a result of she was his ex, and That’s what Caitlyn is mainly saying right here. I made a, I made a foul joke. She even stated that in that Fb submit that I learn you.
She’s admitting I made a foul joke. And a few individuals are taking it to the extent of, Oh my God, I hate her. I can’t stand her. And it’s like, look, I, did I just like the joke? No. Did I feel it made her make her look dangerous? Sure. Did I feel it made her look petty? Sure. Did I feel it make her look imply woman? Sure. However it doesn’t imply I’m by no means going to go with Caitlin for one thing she does sooner or later.
And it doesn’t imply I might by no means discuss to her once more. I imply, that’s, that’s the place individuals get carried away in bachelor nation is their reactions to one thing like this. This, she didn’t do one thing unlawful. She didn’t break the regulation. She stated one thing dumb on a podcast. She shouldn’t have stated, doesn’t imply I’m going to cancel her.
I do know different individuals will, however I’m not, it’s simply for this specific incident. And sure, this has been the primary, this isn’t the primary and it gained’t be the final. She admits I don’t have a filter and typically she places her foot in her mouth. And she or he did on this case on this occasion, she did it once more, however I feel that.
It was, and I feel the worst half was it wasn’t in response to something. She didn’t want to inform this story and sitting right here it. It’s similar to, yeah, man, it’s simply, it doesn’t look good. It actually doesn’t. So sadly she stated it. She wrote that on her Fb submit. I don’t know if she’s going to deal with it on her Instagram.
I don’t know if she’s going to do a video. I don’t know if she’s going to take an image of herself or do a video of herself or submit something about this, as a result of she has stated, like we talked about at first, she has stated, I’m not speaking about my non-public life publicly. Effectively, to deal with this story, she virtually has to speak about the truth that she’s courting Zach, who’s Tasha’s ex boyfriend, and she or he virtually has to make use of names and she or he didn’t within the podcast.
I don’t anticipate her to do it now. So, I don’t know. I don’t even know if she’ll handle this. However, if something, she needs to publicly say one thing, she ought to say, she ought to say what she wrote on her Fb. If she’s gonna handle it publicly, simply no matter you wrote in your Fb group, that I learn to you, say it publicly.
Simply say that. I made a foul joke on the expense of someone who it was uncalled for, they didn’t deserve it. I imply, she’s now put it on the market into the general public. Her and I have been by no means mates. Caitlin and Tayshia have been by no means mates. I’ve heard that for, I’ve heard that for years, however I didn’t know the insides or, you already know, the within to it or why, you already know, I don’t know why they weren’t mates.
Simply because they hosted a present collectively didn’t imply they must be mates. They have been coworkers, however as a result of they have been two ladies for the primary time internet hosting the Bachelorette franchise, individuals simply thought they have to be BFFs they usually weren’t. They by no means have been. So we will sit right here and debate woman code. Did she break woman code or something like that?
I feel the very last thing about that individual dialog on the podcast was Caitlin stated she was mainly contacting Taysha to present her a heads up. Once more, it didn’t sound like a lot of a heads up as a result of she stated she wasn’t anticipating Taysha to react that means, which implies she went in with an agenda of, nicely, I’m going to do no matter I’m going to do.
I’m simply giving Taysha a heads up. Effectively, then it looks like issues are sort of backwards. Since you weren’t giving her a heads up, you have been telling her what you have been doing. You weren’t asking for her response. And she or he was virtually answering for the way Tayshia She thought Tayshia ought to have responded when she stated, I didn’t anticipate her to react that means.
Effectively, why not? Simply because Tayshia’s in a brand new relationship , we, we do not know when the whole lot began with Zach, when the whole lot began with Caitlin and Zach and, you already know, the timelines of all that stuff. I’m not going to take a seat right here and debate it as a result of I do not know what the true reply is.
I’m simply info right here. But when I’m Tayshia, who needed to sit on a sofa and have Caitlin maintain her hand throughout a Males Inform All episode and announce publicly that her and Zach had damaged up, And Caitlyn has been on podcasts after that, nearer to when that occurred, saying that she felt that Tayshia was very sturdy for that.
She felt terrible for Tayshia having to go on stage. And Tayshia sat on that stage and advised everyone that she was damaged. She needed to break up with Zach they usually have been not collectively and she or he was hurting. And Caitlyn was the cohost of that and held her hand throughout all that. After which discover out no matter it was a 12 months later, two years later that Caitlyn was courting Zach.
Should you’re Tayshia, you need to suppose in your head, Hey, after I was telling you all this about my relationship with Zach. Had been you listening? Did you’ve gotten eyes for him then? Did you’ve gotten it in your head? , it’s simply, and I’m not saying, I’m not accusing anyone of something trigger I don’t know the timeline, however I’m simply saying if I’m Tayshia, I take a look at it as like, how do I do know that after I was going by this with Zach, Tayshia, you already know, Caitlin was being sincere with me.
Possibly she had just a little flutter in her eye for him again then. That’s all I’m saying. I’m not in opposition to Caitlin courting Zach. They have been each single individuals. They might date whoever they need. However you additionally must know when you date the ex fiance of someone within the franchise, yeah, it may not sit nicely with them.
After which to go surfing and go on a podcast and inform that story and say, God, when she received, when she received, when she stated that to me and she or he stated that, you already know, you’re a foul individual. You have been what I at all times thought. I’m going to ship her an image of me sucking Zach’s dick. It’s like, okay, that wasn’t a terrific response.
Simply not good. Nonetheless, not selecting sides right here. I’m not staff Jason versus staff Caitlin. All I’m saying is dangerous joke on a podcast. She by no means ought to have stated it. I’m not canceling her. She’s not going to lose her podcast reputation due to this simply means I feel she simply must be extra cautious. I perceive she loves being the woman that doesn’t have a filter, however she has to know typically that filter goes to attract a powerful response out of the viewers.
Ought to it contain dying threats? No. Ought to it contain calling her names? No. Should you don’t like how the way in which Caitlin conducts her enterprise and with a number of the issues she says, and a number of the issues which are off the cuff and no filter, then I might recommend simply don’t observe her, however don’t write her a message on her captions and don’t DM her.
That’s all. I’m not going to DM her. I’m not going to message her. I’m not going to ship her an e mail. I’m not going to write down something on her web page. I’m nonetheless going to observe her. It’s simply no matter we transfer on. However Caitlin, simply She needs to say one thing publicly. I might suppose she ought to simply say what she wrote on that Fb submit.
That’s all.
