An ideal first time visitor on the podcast in the present day as Dotun Olubeko, winner of Bachelorette season 21 now up wherever you take heed to your podcasts and on my YouTube channel. Wanna thank BetUS for connecting Dotun and I for this interview. First time ever talking with him and I’ve them to thank for it. Click on on BetUS to test it out. By no means thought that Dotun and I’d join, however hey, right here we’re. We had so much to go over since his life has been a whirlwind for a very good 12 months now. We discuss Jenn’s finale, talk about the likelihood that maaaaaaaybe he spoiled his personal season (hey, I needed to ask), he has some questions for Actuality Steve he needed to get off his chest, being in a public relationship, does DWTS have an effect on {couples}, and far, rather more. Nice time with Dotun in the present day and I hope you all get pleasure from this dialog.
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YOUR DAILY ROUNDUP 9/5 TRANSCRIPT
You might be listening to the Day by day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in. A superb Thursday present for you, despite the fact that a few of you could be receiving this on Thursday night time or Wednesday night time as a result of as you realize, I’m heading out of city. within the morning and I simply needed to get all of your podcasts up proper now.
So we’re going to speak extra about gen season, the whole lot that went down yesterday, issues that occurred on social media. We’ve bought so much to cowl in in the present day’s podcast and we are going to get to that momentarily. I do wish to say this, your whole stuff is coming tonight. So each day roundup you’re listening to proper now in about quarter-hour from now, the sports activities each day will likely be up after which about quarter-hour after that, 1230 AM central time is when your episode, your weekly podcast episode quantity 4 Oh seven with Dotton Alabeco is going on tonight.
It’ll be on my YouTube channel at 1230 AM. Central time must be in your podcast feed a little bit bit earlier than that. So you’re getting the whole lot tonight. I simply need to have the ability to get up tomorrow morning, bathe, get in my automotive, go to the airport and never have to fret about stuff. I would retweet among the stuff that I put out tonight and simply say, Hey, for these of you that have been sleeping.
Once I posted these items, it’s up after which tomorrow’s each day roundup and sports activities each day are each already loaded and able to go. Right now was actually in all probability one of many busiest days. Not solely did it need to be the day after the finale, nevertheless it’s additionally a day the place I did three interviews and recorded 5 podcasts.
Like I simply, I procrastinated tomorrow’s a podcast visitor on the each day roundup is Kristen Burtt, who’s an leisure reporter for Dem dancing with the celebs. So we spend about 35 minutes speaking about that. My sports activities each day tomorrow was already pre recorded, however I nonetheless needed to document an open and a detailed.
I recorded with Dotton in the present day. I recorded in the present day’s sports activities each day and I recorded this podcast. So yeah, 5 podcasts, three interviews. Busy, busy day, however I’m clear till Sunday night time after I document Mondays, a each day roundup and a sports activities each day. However I simply didn’t wish to need to document something. Ravens and chiefs are tonight.
I’ll be in Vegas and I didn’t wish to have to return to my room after the sport at like, effectively, it’ll be about eight 30, 9 o’clock on a Thursday night time in Vegas, and so they didn’t wish to return to my room and spend an hour there recording two podcasts. So that they’re all set. Loaded, able to go tomorrow. All proper, so let’s get going with some extra bachelorette stuff.
Some issues that got here to me from that I possibly didn’t get to yesterday. Regarding the finale, nothing new to report with regard to what I heard from the one who messaged me. I’m nonetheless making an attempt to work out some particulars and discover out, clearly I wish to vet this correctly and wish to make sure that.
However I do not know. If I can, this individual, you realize, somebody contacted me that is aware of one thing about any person else. And I’m like, effectively, I want to speak to that any person else individual instantly. I imply, I, I’m not saying I’m doubting your story, however I must go straight to the supply right here and the individual that’s probably concerned.
So I’m simply ready to listen to again from them and see if they will put me in contact. Or if that different individual even needs to talk, I. Don’t know, and I can’t pressure them to in the event that they don’t wish to some issues that I simply by no means went over within the finale. The present itself. I assumed Jen’s brother was glorious. I imply, that man killed it very, you realize, he wasn’t like gung ho, like lots of these households are skeptical, however he was skeptical with a delicate facet about it.
He wasn’t simply coming down on the fellows. He was asking good questions. An important factor about James, her brother was, you realize, Whereas we have been watching the episode of what occurred again in Hawaii, the stay shot of him in his seat just about advised the entire story. The man by no means cracked a smile as soon as.
After which you’ve gotten Jesse asking him after we watched each guys meet James and the household. We had Jesse ask him, how are you feeling proper now? He’s like, not too pleased proper now. So we sort of knew that at that time he wouldn’t say that if Jen was pleased and in a relationship and nonetheless engaged. So we sort of knew what was coming, however.
It was very telling to say the least however James, he knocked it out of the park on that episode for positive. You understand, the extra I give it some thought, the extra bothered I’m by them displaying the proposal. And sure, I’m very effectively conscious that Jen mentioned in a number of interviews yesterday that she, she knew it was coming.
She knew they have been going to point out the proposal. She knew it was going to be an emotional night time for her and so they knew, and she or he mentioned, I used to be not stunned in any respect. They didn’t shock me and throw that on me. She goes, I knew it was coming, which is okay, however that doesn’t make it proper. It doesn’t imply, Hey, we gave her a heads up.
She knew we have been going to point out it. I don’t suppose that’s the query that must be requested. The query that must be requested is why did it’s important to present it? Whether or not they confirmed it in, and a few individuals are saying, effectively, I believe they, I didn’t have an issue displaying them displaying it. They need to have confirmed it within the regular sequence.
And once we, so we often see proposals occur. I’m like, I don’t suppose it issues, you realize? And, and the most important downside I’ve with it’s the truth that I mentioned it yesterday, however I wish to repeat this once more. That is the problem. We noticed her dump Marcus. Then the following scene is Devin going to fulfill Neil Lane to take a look at rings.
After which proper after that scene, Jesse Palmer, we get again to a stay shot of Jesse Palmer on the sofa saying, Hey, usually right now, very pleased second, we might present you the proposal, however we’re not going to do this as a consequence of what’s occurred since that day. After which they’ve two segments of Jen sitting on the sofa crying.
And then you definately present it prefer it simply doesn’t make any sense after they particularly advised us we’re not going to point out it. He didn’t say at that time, we’re not going to point out it now. We wish to discuss it and we’ll present it later. I simply, it made no sense. And this present can say no matter they need. No person has come out but from the present and defended them displaying the proposal.
I doubt anyone will. Jesse’s going to be requested about it sooner or later, I’d suppose, however my level is nothing that they are saying, and I do know their reply goes to be like, we needed to point out Jen that she was an empowering girl at that and the way robust she was on that day. I’m sorry. That’s not adequate.
She didn’t need to see that. You probably did it to get a viral TV second and to get folks speaking. You probably did it for tv functions, not since you have been searching for Jen’s emotions. The lady was already a multitude for 2 straight segments, and then you definately made her watch that once more. And I do know she mentioned, look, I needed Devin to look at it, however Devin needed no a part of it both.
Sat there along with his head down, and Jen sat there crying. Once more. Which I imply, how may you not watching that again along with your ex fiance sitting proper subsequent to you? It was simply so not elegant. It was humiliating. It was embarrassing and it by no means ought to have been proven interval. Finish of story. There’s nothing they will say to persuade me.
Oh, I see their facet. I simply don’t. I don’t see it. It was a tv stunt achieved to get folks speaking, which clearly it labored. Individuals are speaking about it in the present day. All people’s speaking about it in the present day. I can’t consider they made her sit by way of that proposal that they bought what they needed. It doesn’t make it proper.
Devin on the sofa saying, you realize, yeah, regretfully, I used to be late on letting you understand how I felt. That’s his greatest rationalization. Actually? That’s all you may give you? You’ve had three and a half months since Might sixteenth to formulate one thing higher than that. And all he may say was, Regretfully, I used to be late on letting you understand how I felt.
Once more, folks on this franchise are allowed to get off the present. I’m speaking about last {couples}. You’re allowed to get off the present, have your pleased couple visits, begin attending to know one another extra and notice, Oh shit, possibly this isn’t gonna work out between us. That’s completely acceptable. In actual fact, it’s the norm on the present.
Trigger far more {couples} break up than really keep collectively. Once more, my greatest concern with Devin will not be that he couldn’t be suitable with Jen or that Jen couldn’t be suitable with him, or they wouldn’t have made it longterm. It’s the truth that the love bombing occurred for the final 4 episodes. And as Jen mentioned, which is confirmed by Dotton, whenever you hear on this interview in the present day, Dotton tells me, I noticed Jen proper after filming ended at CMA Fest and she or he mentioned then one thing’s sort of off.
He mentioned she didn’t spoil something for me, however she’s like one thing’s sort of off. One thing’s bizarre. That was CMA Fest. That was like possibly per week after they bought again from filming, finish of Might. In order that’s what I imply. What Jen mentioned was confirmed by Dotton on Podcast quantity 407 developing in about an hour from now, half hour from now, no matter, 1230 a.
m. He’s Central Normal Time. It was confirmed by him. She wasn’t mendacity on the stage when she mentioned she felt like he was distant from the time they left Hawaii and one foot out the door. Like, I imply, I, I mentioned it on Dave’s stay Monday night time after the present. And I’ll say it once more. If he would have simply went for a month or two months and notice, man, it’s not working between us and simply had, and so they broke up earlier than the present.
Yeah, it will have sucked. It’s occurred earlier than although, on the present the place they couldn’t even make it. The ultimate couple couldn’t make it to after the ultimate rose, however. We simply not getting a solution to, Hey, I couldn’t stay as much as your expectations, Jen. Okay. Why couldn’t you reside as much as the expectations? Inform us, inform us the way you felt the place you simply, you get off the, you get off the Island in Hawaii and also you’re identical to, I’m not interested in her.
I don’t discover her engaging in any respect. Was it, she snores throughout her, when she sleeps? I don’t know. I’m simply saying, give us a purpose. You gave us nothing and that’s why it’s very exhausting to consider something he says, particularly when he says, regretfully, I’m late on letting you realize, I ought to’ve let you realize. I couldn’t stay as much as your expectations and also you weren’t the individual it is best to have been round me.
I identical to, I’m sorry. He’s like placing it again on her to nearly take warmth off himself. Like, you realize, the just about. Virtually the, it’s not, it’s not you, it’s me. So I completely perceive the place he simply didn’t have the balls to return out and inform her why he wasn’t, why he wasn’t feeling it together with her anymore. And I’m sorry after I’ve heard all of the issues that I’ve heard for the final 4 months.
After which I discover out that this man mainly checked out from the second he left Hawaii.
It’s very straightforward to consider he conned her and he was by no means going to be critical about this relationship. He went on the present to win a recreation present in his thoughts. And you realize, I don’t understand how recreation of roses is speaking about this, however wouldn’t he technically be like the best recreation participant on this present’s historical past as a result of he gained the ring or no matter, and, after which bolted, he did the whole lot he wanted to do to win.
Like if it’s all about profitable, Devin could be one of many biggest gamers ever. But when it’s all about the way you deal with folks, he’s in all probability one of many worst. In order that’s what I imply. It’s simply, he’s not a very good man. Sorry. There’s no different approach round it. And the best way he handled her, the best way he acted on stage, so aloof, didn’t appear to take accountability for something.
Simply got here throughout as terrible.
