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A woman has stirred widespread reactions on social media after alleging that a pastor and his wife regularly attended private gatherings where the husband had sexual encounters with other women, claiming the arrangement was agreed upon by his spouse.
The woman made the claims during a podcast conversation that has since gone viral online.
She presented the story as a personal account shared with her by a former colleague, stressing that she had previously admired the couple’s marriage before learning about the alleged arrangement.
Woman says she admired the couple’s marriage
According to her, the colleague appeared to have what she described as a “model marriage” that many people would look up to.
“A man doesn’t allow another man to sleep with her, but she allows him to sleep with another woman. And they go together.
“I used to have a colleague. This lady in question, she had like a model marriage. You know what I mean? The godly marriage.
“Her husband is a pastor in Redeem. Right. You know.
“They go to church together. I looked up to them so much. You know, so I was like, this is marriage.
“This is what marriage should be.”
She said she later became close to the woman after discussing relationships and infidelity.
“But at some point, I started to believe that men don’t cheat.
“We now, like, start having a conversation. We start, like, you know, I start expressing.
“I start telling her stuff about me. Yeah. And then she now opened up.”
Claims of monthly swinger meetings
The woman alleged that her colleague confided in her about a monthly arrangement involving other women.
“Let me tell you the truth, too. All these things that you’re seeing in this marriage, you know what it is?
“That there’s a place in Lekki, Ikate. There’s that particular place.
“It’s, like, couples Swingers.
“They’re swingers. No, the man doesn’t allow another man to sleep with her, but she allows him to sleep with another woman. And they go together.
“And they go together. So he sleeps with the woman and sleeps with her, too. They do it once every month.
“And that’s what makes the man happy. And she just does it.
“I’ve never heard that thing in my life before.”
She further claimed that the pastor and his wife were active church leaders whose public image contrasted sharply with what she alleged happened privately.
“If I show you this man’s page, when you see him on the pulpit like this, you will fall.
“There’s no way you’ll be in that church. You will not fall under anointing.
“And when the woman also climbs the pulpit, you know, do as I say. Don’t do as I do. Nobody will tell you.
“If she didn’t open up to me, like, I would never have known.
“And when you see them outside, you’ll be like, oh, my God, modern couples.”
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